Q. Do you do video chat?
A. No. I am not fond of video chat at all. Never been good at it, and I feel it is best to stay away from that which you cannot exeed at.
Q. Would you travel to other cities?
A. Not at this time.
Q. Why don't you have a full dungeon, or rent one?
A. What I enjoy doing I can do in my play space for the time being. I will eventually have a dungeon of my own with more furniture and such, but for now, my imagination and wit help me create most of the same use of furniture in a very different compact way. I will not rent dungeon space as this is just a cut from income, and it will take that much longer to get my own goals accomplished.
Q. Why don't you have pictures of partial nudity, or session time pictures on your site like most Dommes do?
A. If I put any session material up, it would be in the member's section, which will not be expensive to purchase. I also have partial nudes here and there in different places. If I choose to post them, it is for my pleasure, not yours. I am not selling my body so much as the image. I do not feel I need tons of scantily clad media to recieve clients. If there are going to be any at all on this site however, they would be found in the member's section.
Q. I haven't seen you around, and I have been in the scene for a long time.
A. I have not been in the social aspect of things until recently. I have however been into the scene for over 14 years, and started my adventure years prior to that.
Q. How do I get to know you more personality wise since I have never heerd of you?
A. I have a Fetlife account. I am pretty open on it, and you can see me interact there as I am on it at least once a day, but more often more than that.
Q. Why must you have a deposit? Doesn't seem fair.
A. I agree. It is not fair. However, even if you will not set an appointment and end up a no show, most clients do. They get excited, then scared, then I have taken time to get things set and ready, I have to pay my DM who is also on scene, and it is a bunch of wasted time for those that like to play games when it comes to making appointments and keeping them. I wish I could just "KNOW" who would be the scared little sheep, but I do not, so to be fair, all must go through the initial deposit.
Q. Why do you need to know about my medical background?
A. We need this information to keep your session a pleasant one. If you have asthma, or something else that may use immediate - use medication, it will be placed somewhere within reach while we session, or make sure your legs are not tied too tight as to cut off circulation if leg circlatory system is already at risk, just as a few examples.
Q. Why do you have a DM? Will the DM be present? I thought this is secure and private?
A. Safety first. I am a petite woman, and a client larger than me can be a handful if on a cross and they hit subspace. I would need help lowering the client to a safe position, or getting them out of whatever binds I have put them in. Second, should anything of medical emergence happen, there is help to safely secure the client, and get the medical attention needed. The DM will not interfere, or be directly in the space unless we need him.
Q. Why can't we have sex? Isn't this the sex industry?
A. I am a lifestyle entertainer. I cater to fetishes, roleplay, fantasies. I do not cater to sex. If you are looking for a "happy ending" as it is referred to, please seek out a prostitute.
Q. I am new to this! I cannot believe you do this type of things to other people..what an animal you are!
A. This is not abuse. It is not unwanted. People come to me to help them feel content. How can someone feel content doing this? It is another type of release for some people. We all need one. Some need to have another take the authority away from them to feel free at the end of a day if they are in control all the time . Some feel they need to cry, but cannot unless brought to tears. I am sure you have felt better letting it all out. Some cannot do that without help. Some people have mental blockers that they cannot surpass without a therapy that has more to it than just "talking" it out. Emotions are totally different than fears. Stress is complete fear. Emotional upset is hard to engage just one way. Some people can only get closer to other people by engaging in certain activities. All of us have something quirky about us, fears, needs, desires, fantasies, no one is void of these. If you don't understand the principals because you have never felt this way, that is totally understandable. However, you cannot label something you have nothing to compare it to. Everyone is different. It definitely is not for everyone, but, it is everything to some. Please respect this. IF you have a hard time taking this all in, and still think it is horrid..what are you still reading for? There is a tiny little exit X in the top right hand corner of your screen, please proceed to it quickly and CLICK it. TY.
Q. I would like to try this, but I am new and scared. Isn't it all about pain/abuse/humiliation?
A. NO. This is where there is a complete misunderstanding of the fetish lifestyle. Many people like the softer side of the fetish world. There is much to offer on that side as well. Being soft and gentle. Speaking kindly, encouragement. Letting someone play dress up (we all don't lose that need to roleplay after growing up!) Sometimes, just a soft wax play, and verbal acceptance with a sensual atmosphere. Each person is different.
Q. What if I know I want to try something that is strange and unique? How do I approach this? Or maybe I am not sure what I want to try? I am scared not knowing what to expect.
A. We will discuss your concerns. There is not much I haven't seen in the lifestyle, and I am sure you will not surprise me. The worst thing I can say is I will not participate in something. That is that. No problem. I consider myself easy to talk to when engaging in fetish needs and desires.
I try my best to interact with the client to ensure they are relaxed with myself and their first visit. We will start slow, and gentle, so you can find your limits. If you are not sure of what you want, I can further discuss with you things you may want to try. New clients that have never been to a Dominatrix are taken care of well, and events go slow and steady, and the client is encouraged to speak up if they wish to engage or disengage in the play.
Q. Can you tell me about how the session will go, every thing we may do, what will be said? I want to know!
A. This is impossible to answer. Each session is unique. There are no scripts, it is not a memorized play. Besides this, it takes all the fun out of the scene if you try to script everything.
Q. I would like to purchase something for you, but I do not know your size
A. I am 5'. 34, 24, 35. I take an xs in bottoms, s in tops, 5.5 to 6 shoe size. If ordering something from china, small..something from anywhere else, check the sizes. Hard to find my size anywhere. I wear a 0-1 in clothes.
Q. What do you need most?
A. For entertaining, leather and pvp or latex gear.
For myself, check my wishlist. The things I need most are posted as high priority, though anything on the list is a generous gesture.